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The $6.15 Christ

A Son's Birthday Gift to His Father

Monday, September 19, 2011 3:05 PM Comments (20)

It’s been a tough summer financially. Our Buick unexpectedly died and had to be replaced. My pneumonia led to unexpected doctor’s bills. Our riding lawnmower bit the dust. As a single-income family, we’ve come up short and it’s kept me up many a night. It’s at moments like these that I question our commitment to a single-income and home-educating our children.

As the primary provider for our family, I have tried to shield our children from this reality as best I can, but they’ve still felt the results.

Hoped-for piano lessons for the children were eliminated. Eating out has ceased. I increased the insurance deductibles on our vehicles. A planned long-distance trip to see America’s approved Marian shrine has been put on hold. We’ve prayed together as a family that God would provide for our most immediate needs.

So, a week ago when I celebrated my birthday, I wasn’t expecting any gifts, least not the one I ended up receiving.

As I opened and read each of my five children’s, and my wife’s, hand-made cards, I savored their sentiments about being an “awesome dad,” and a “loving husband.”

The last card, however, wasn’t a card, but an envelope from our youngest son, eight-year-old Peter. It jingled as I opened it.

Once opened, it revealed a collection of dollars and assortment of loose change. As our children do not receive an allowance, I recognized that it had to be the contents of Peter’s piggy bank. Knowledgeable about our financial situation, Peter had held nothing back. Moved by his generosity, I couldn’t bring myself to count it at the time, but simply gave him a hug, told him that he didn’t need to do that, and thanked him.

Later, as I was putting the money away, I counted it out. A $1 bill, a $5 bill, one nickel, and 10 pennies. As I counted out each penny, 1, 2, 3… 4, 5, 6, 7… 8, 9… 10, I realized that my son had given me

all

that he had. Six dollars and fifteen cents. He held back nothing, but gave me every last penny. His gift to me was to give me everything. The totality of his gift moved me to tears as I placed the change in our change jar.

Reflecting on my son’s complete gift, I couldn’t help but think of the Father’s complete gift to us. The $6.15 reminded me of Our Heavenly Father, who held back nothing, but gave it all, including His Son Jesus Christ. Only instead of the Father’s gift of His Son, this was a gift made by a loving son to his father. A $6.15 Christ.

As Sunday’s Gospel reading about the workers in the vineyard made abundantly clear, we do not earn Christ. We do not deserve Christ. Yet, there He is – the Father’s complete gift to us, offered freely for all, whether we come to him early, or like the Good Thief, we come to him late. All that we have is gift, but He is the ultimate gift. It took $6.15 to remind me of that. In that, it was the best gift I’ve ever received.

 

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What’s left to comment your son said it all.

Thanks, I needed to read that.

lovely, just lovely!

Awesome kid!

Your son must be a very generous and thoughtful lad.

Wow…..simply beautiful

Oh, that every parent trying to get their kids back to heaven gets such a gift (and story) to remember and relive whenever they doubt that parenting outside the norm isn’t worth it.

I am so glad you and your wife have one!

I am crying as I type.  Beautiful.

I too must live on a single income and I also have had my share of unexpected expenses. I am glad to hear that your family understands. Truly wealthy you are.

my husband just e-mailed me this today,  not all that long ago.  and I am currently reading it through a rough patch I’m having.  Thank you.  thank you so much

What a wonderful boy!  The fruits of your labor ...it’s a marvelous thing to witness..

Thank you for that story.

Thank you for sharing this with the world - we should be reminded that it is impossible to enter the kingdom of God unless we become children - children innocence is the presence of Jesus/God in them

What a blessing!  You, Mr Drake, are a very wealthy man.

Well said Jane.

Very cool story. Thank you for sharing. Your son is so sweet and thoughtful!

There are many wealthy dads who long for the riches which flow in the Drake family!

It is hard being a one income family, we did it with our 4 & homeschooled 2;our son is still living at home. He buys his own clothes and food.
Our daughters are all out on their
own; aware that any job can be gone at anytime.

I recently bought 2 ‘small coins’ circa 300AD, at auction.I was amazed at
them because they were so small. The Gospel stories of the woman giving 2 small coins in the box at temple(all she had), the coin that was taken from the fish’s mouth to pay the tax(I now understand how it could have been in the mouth with no problem), the ‘render Cesar” pictured on the coin, and lastly that an early Christian could have used this coin in a Sunday Mass collection.

We are so blessed even though we don’t deserve it.

Beautiful! You and your family are truly blessed in this treasure of a grateful son! Bless you all!

I melted…

Thank you for this a hundredfold! Absolutely moving! The gospel come to life. Your son, family, and the faith you so well teach them and they live make you the wealthiest of men, Tim.

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Tim Drake is an award-winning journalist and author. He serves as senior writer with the National Catholic Register. His articles have appeared in publications such as Faith and Family magazine, Our Sunday Visitor, Catholic World Report, Catholic Exchange.com, Columbia Magazine, Gilbert! Magazine, This Rock Magazine, and many others. Tim has been a guest on both television and radio. He has appeared on Vatican Radio, FOX News, and EWTN. He is a frequent guest on Sirius XM Satellite Radio's The Catholic Channel. He co-hosts the weekly radio program "Register Radio" on EWTN, airing Friday afternoon at 2 p.m. Eastern. Tim has published six books - his most recent being the coffee-table book, Behind Bella: The Amazing Stories of Bella and the Lives it's Changed, (Ignatius Press, 2008) - and has contributed to several others.