Father James Flanagan, the founder of the Society of Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity (SOLT), passed away on March 24 at the age of 91.

Born on May 29, 1924, the feast of the Ascension, James Henry Flanagan always had a special connection to Our Lady. In his youth, the Boston native was given a deep faith by his parents, James and Rose. His father took young James and his three brothers and sister to daily Mass, planting the seeds for his future priestly vocation. 

Flanagan went to the University of Notre Dame on a football scholarship, but his studies were interrupted by World War II in 1943. He then served in the U.S. Navy as part of the underwater demolition team, clearing mines on the Normandy beaches for D-Day. Out of a hundred men in his group, only three survived. He then went on to become a Navy Frog Man — the precursor to the Navy Seals — in the Pacific theater of the war. After the war, he returned to Notre Dame and was an integral part of the school’s three national championship football titles.

Flanagan then entered St. John Seminary in the Archdiocese of Boston and was ordained by Archbishop Richard Cushing on Jan. 10, 1952. Five years later, Father Flanagan was allowed to leave Boston to prepare for the foundation of SOLT in the Archdiocese of Santa Fe, N.M. The order comprised of priests, consecrated sisters and brothers and lay members was formally established on July 16, 1958. Today, SOLT is headquartered in the Diocese of Corpus Christi, Texas, with missions and apostolates around the U.S. and in 13 other countries.


Spiritual Grandfather

Although I am not a member of SOLT, I had the pleasure of getting to know Father Flanagan. He was my spiritual director for two years when I lived in Rome, and he provided my future husband and me with marriage preparation. His presence, although very quiet and peaceful, filled a room. With a shock of white hair and bushy white eyebrows, his grandfatherly air immediately put people at ease. He would call me “sis” (a name he used with so many to emphasize that we are all family in Christ) as a sign of affection, but spoken with his Boston accent, it had a most endearing ring to it. 

“Father Jim saw goodness in others, he perceived that they should be spoken well of, and his desire was to bring them into communion with the family of God.” said Father Peter Marsalek, the general priest servant of SOLT, in his homily for Father Flanagan’s funeral, “I think it’s the reason why so many people felt so close to him: He believed in us, encouraged us and thought that with God’s grace we could do just about anything!”

This was one of Father Flanagan’s greatest attributes: Like that grandfather who adores everything about his grandchild, he provided not only the tools to help one discern God’s will, but also the confidence and love necessary to do it. He loved with the love of God the Father.

After our first visit for our marriage preparation, Father said to us, “Jesus and Mary told me to do something different with you two.” So we got a most unique and beautiful marriage preparation, perfectly suited to our needs. He mentioned several times what a wonderful gift it is for a newly married couple to have a year together set apart, either traveling or somewhere away from the chaos of jobs and daily life to just be together. My fiancé and I listened and thought that sounded lovely, but it could never work for us financially. Father Flanagan pulled a few spiritual strings, and so we spent the first year of our marriage, almost to the day, rarely separated. We were unemployed. At the time, it seemed a terrible cross: living in the home of generous friends with no income other than savings and a baby on the way. In retrospect, there couldn’t have been a better way to start our married life than to learn the balancing act of joy, trust and sacrifice.

Other than talking about Our Lady and the Trinity, Father Flanagan had a soft spot for babies and strongly promoted St. Joseph as an aid for infertility. He told the story of one woman and her husband who had been trying to have a baby for years. Father Flanagan told them to start praying to St. Joseph. Eventually, the couple did pray to St. Joseph, they did get pregnant, and she did deliver the baby safely, followed by several other children.

Whether it was the Trinity, Mary or the saints, Father Flanagan emphasized over and over the importance of authentic relationships with the population of heaven. In an effort to deepen my faith and relationship with these real people, he suggested that I give up many of my daily devotions and just be present to God, listening to him.

But Father Flanagan also emphasized personal relationships on earth, particularly the essential role of the family. Speaking of his own father, he said, “My father was really the inspiration of my life. He had a sense of the sacredness of the things of God; he would go to ordinations to the priesthood, taking his children with him. And we would all receive the newly ordained priests’ blessings at the cathedral. Then he would take us to the seminary to get their blessings, and then to their first Masses and again get their blessings. All this prompted my mother to say to my father, ‘Jim Flanagan, you’ll bless these children out of existence!’”

An entire book could (and should) be written about Father Flanagan’s life and legacy, including the many miracles he performed, his deep theological insights about Mary and the Trinity, and the love and fidelity he had for the faith. His life is, however, best summed up by the day selected by God for his death: Holy Thursday, the feast of the Institution of the Eucharist. “As Father Jim said, our life is meant to be lived from ‘Communion to Communion,’” Father Marsalek explained in his funeral homily. “Indeed, as a priest, whenever Father Jim heard word of the death of someone, whatever time of day, he would immediately celebrate Mass for the person! Nothing was more important for Father Jim than celebrating the Eucharist, and for that reason, he had such a remarkable esteem for the priesthood.”


The Anti-Celebrity

In a culture drowning in celebrity, Father Flanagan sought out anonymity and a hidden life, despite the many miracles, deep wisdom and attractive Marian charism that he generously gave to others.

Christine Mugridge, a lay member of SOLT, spoke a bit about his humility. “There are many people who serve the poor and talk about the poor, but Father lived with them. Father would say, ‘I am and we are, the last, the least and the lowest, because Our Lady in her humility thought of herself as the last, the least and the lowest.’ He lived this out.”

Carrie Gress, a Register blogger,

has a doctorate in philosophy

from The Catholic University of America.