KANSAS CITY, Mo. — A growing number of U.S. bishops are going head-to-head with the multi-billion dollar pornography industry and successfully breaking porn’s hold on men and women across the country in the process.
Philip, a 53-year-old Missourian, joined a Catholic support group established by Kansas City-St. Joseph Bishop Robert Finn a year ago when he realized that he couldn’t fight his porn addiction on his own.
“It would be so much easier for me to go back to my old ways,” he said, “but the Good Lord has put it on my heart that this addiction is so pervasive in our world today that if I don’t change, I’m not going to impact God’s design not only for me, but for children.”
Although he doesn’t have a family of his own, Philip came to realize that women and boys are the fastest growing demographic of porn consumers. After years of working with an accountability partner — one of several strategies to break porn’s addictive hold — Philip found success in a weekly support group for men who struggle with impurity.
The group is one component of a multi-pronged strategy Bishop Finn drew up with his anti-pornography task force established in 2004. On Ash Wednesday, the bishop issued a pastoral letter calling Catholics of his diocese to take a fresh look at the virtues of purity and chastity — and giving them tools to help break porn’s hold.
The support groups, Bishop Finn told the Register, “are to ensure that men are supported and fortified by each other to grow in their awareness and responsibility for the spiritual and chaste development of themselves and their families — and to be a help to the pastor because we want each pastor to have a go-to person.
“We need to raise awareness on this issue and instill an understanding of the Church’s teaching on the dignity of the human person and human sexuality, especially by way of the theology of the body,” he said. “We also saw the need to have a support system for people who are struggling with this temptation, a serious addiction in some cases.”
His pastoral letter — “Blessed Are the Pure in Heart” — follows the efforts of several bishops, including Bishop Paul Loverde of Arlington, Va., who issued a letter on this subject last year.
Bishop Finn’s efforts piggyback those of his neighboring Archdiocese of Kansas City, Kan., where Archbishop Joseph Naumann set up a similar task force at the suggestion of his predecessor, Archbishop James Keleher.
More than ever, Catholic and evangelical Protestant leaders are organizing to help porn addicts, said Bob Peters, president of Morality in Media, a national interfaith organization founded by Jesuit Father Morton Hill in 1962 to combat obscenity and uphold decency standards in the media.
“Clearly, there’s a spiritual dimension to this pornography problem that the churches are uniquely qualified to address,” he said. “Another issue in the evangelical community is the large number of pastors struggling with this problem. I’ve seen statistics that say a third to a half have looked at [porn] and have struggled to not go back, which shows the power of it.”
The porn industry brings in $57 billion a year worldwide. Porn is larger than the combined revenues of all professional football, baseball and basketball franchises. In the United States, porn revenue ($12 billion a year) exceeds the combined revenues of the three major television networks — ABC, CBS and NBC ($6.2 billion).
In addition to the devastation porn wreaks on families, Peters said it is also becoming increasingly dangerous for those in the porn industry, which has been linked to human trafficking.
“A lot of the most vile and violent pornography is no longer simulated,” he said. “It’s actually sexual torture and abuse of women who’ve been trapped into slavery.”
Philip, who has struggled to break free from porn for the past 30 years, said he has seen countless lives shattered by this addiction.
“When men get to this place, they’ve forgotten about the sacraments,” he said. “They’ve forgotten about God. They’ve forgotten about their wives and they’ve forgotten about their children. Unfortunately, it’s usually trauma that snaps them back into reality — loss of job, loss of family.”
Claude Fasso, vice chancellor of the Diocese of Kansas City, is a member of Bishop Finn’s task force. The reason porn has become so pervasive, he said, is because of easy access on the Internet, cell phones and portable media players.
“We plan to do some Internet awareness in the parishes and well beyond that because there are so many people addicted to pornography,” he said.
Support groups are a key element in the diocese’s plan, he said.
“The first part of the effort is to get them into discussion, recognize the problem and need for a spiritual solution,” Fasso said. “Once they get beyond that and want to do something about it, we get them into an accountability program.
“Once you burn 10,000 bad images into your brain, they don’t go away,” he explained. “You have to have a strong network in the long-term battle. I spoke to a man who was in an accountability group for eight years before he felt like he had beaten the addiction.”
Philip, who recently came back to the Church, is now helping lead one of the diocesan support groups.
“There’s not a man who can walk through that door with a story that doesn’t rattle me,” he said, “because I’ve been there.”
Patrick Novecosky is based in
Naples, Florida.
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Catholics are accused by others and even some of our own priests etc that the church was all along teaching something wrong about sex. The great misunderstanding is that church did not say that sex is sin, but said that sex outside marriage is sin. It holds the same view and principle and teaching even now. But the modern culture wants to teach that sex is always good as it igives pleasure and suppression of sexual feelings is wrong. This is the worst and the most dangerous wrong that leads young men and women to wrong road. Only parents can instill in our children that abstinence is a virtue and rewarding The breach of the moral rules will end up only in hatred, disease, peacelessness, separation, lovelessness. Let us begin the lesons at home.
I really hope that the catholic church will succeed in this battle against pornography. I myself is addicted to it and after seeing a random spam comment in youtube about repenting, I think that was the sign I was waiting for. My conscience suddenly just took over. It has really tempted me to the point that almost everyday when I wake up, the I open the computer and just watch it for almost the whole morning. I really feel awful afterwards. I hope that this movement will be able to make a difference and help others who are still under the temptation of pornography. I hope people will realize that sex is sacred. When we use it the wrong way we lose that sacredness of it. I hope that the people who are addicted to porn will soon find God and realize how porn silently destroys our lives. I hope parents will play a bigger role not just by hindering their children from watching. But by teaching them that happiness and pleasure can be found if we devout ourselves to God.
I found this article so heart warming. It saddens me that people turn to pornography for their happiness, a thrill perhaps. I think it is wrong that people excuse themselves for using it such as; i am just curious, or i don’t mean anything by it. It is not always the original intentions that wreck their lives and others it is the distraction away from the Lord. How can you receive the most Holiest thing, the Body and Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ after watching the excuse of people pleasuring each other sinfully and often on the verge of abuse? There is no way this can happen successfully. As it says in the Bible, you cannot be the servant of two masters and if you use porn you are not serving yourself to God. I am happy to hear of the support groups for those who need help in their battle of this most awful addiction, as it must be so hard to give up but trust me you are doing what Jesus wants you to do, turning towards him and taking the leap of faith :) I hope that one day all evil industries close, because Jesus would be disgusted at this society. We all need to play our part and make the World a beautiful, pure place, and with Jesus by your side, anything is possible.
I feel this article represents the hypocrisy of Bishop Finn. It is obvious from recent developments that Bishop Finn is opposed to pornography in word, but not in deed. His inactions have endangeered our children. He should apologize to the children and their families…and then resign to make way for a shepherd who would be more vigilant in looking after his flock.
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