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Pope to U.S. Bishops: Teach Youth About Catholic Vision of Love (2991)

Holy Father outlined the roots of the 'contemporary crisis of marriage and the family' to the bishops of Minnesota, North Dakota and South Dakota March 9. Also on that day, he connected the New Evangelization and confession.

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In an address that tackled attempts to redefine marriage, Pope Benedict XVI challenged the bishops of the United States to teach young people an authentic, Catholic vision of sex and love.

“The richness of this vision is more sound and appealing than the permissive ideologies exalted in some quarters; these, in fact, constitute a powerful and destructive form of counter-catechesis for the young,” he said March 9.

The Pope was addressing the bishops of Minnesota, North Dakota and South Dakota. They are currently in Rome as part of their ad limina visit, which involves discussing the health of their dioceses with Pope Benedict and various Vatican departments, as well as making a pilgrimage to the tombs of Sts. Peter and Paul.

“Young people need to encounter the Church’s teaching in its integrity, challenging and countercultural as that teaching may be,” he told the bishops.

Children must see this vision “embodied by faithful married couples who bear convincing witness to its truth,” but the wider Church also has to give them support “as they struggle to make wise choices at a difficult and confusing time in their lives,” the Pope said.

The Pope focused his audience remarks on outlining the roots of the “contemporary crisis of marriage and the family.”

This crisis is evident, he said, in the “weakened appreciation of the indissolubility of the marriage covenant” and the widespread rejection of a “responsible, mature sexual ethic grounded in the practice of chastity.”

He noted that these decisions have led to “grave societal problems bearing an immense human and economic cost.”

The Pope dealt first with the threat posed by attempts to legally redefine marriage.

He recognized that drive to redefine marriage was being pushed by “powerful political and cultural currents,” which require a “conscientious effort to resist this pressure.”

This has to be done, he said, with a “reasoned defense of marriage as a natural institution,” consisting of “a specific communion of persons, essentially rooted in the complementarity of the sexes and oriented to procreation.”

“Sexual differences cannot be dismissed as irrelevant to the definition of marriage,” he said. This is why defending the institution of marriage is “ultimately a question of justice,” since it “entails safeguarding the good of the entire human community and the rights of parents and children alike,” said the Pope.

Later this year, voters in Minnesota will accept or reject a constitutional amendment that defines marriage as “only a union of one man and one woman.”

Pope Benedict then addressed how the Christian vision of sex and love is taught to the young.

He said the bishops must “acknowledge deficiencies in the catechesis of recent decades.” This inadequate teaching has often failed to communicate “the rich heritage of Catholic teaching on marriage as a natural institution elevated by Christ to the dignity of a sacrament,” as well as the “vocation of Christian spouses in society and in the Church and the practice of marital chastity.”

He called for better instruction of both the young and those preparing for marriage with programs based upon the Catechism of the Catholic Church. These should also address the “serious pastoral problem” presented by “the widespread practice of cohabitation, often by couples who seem unaware that it is gravely sinful, not to mention damaging to the stability of society.”

All Catholic family agencies should also give support and “reach out to” those who are divorced, separated, single parents, teenage mothers, women considering abortion, as well as children suffering due to family breakdown.

The Pope identified an “urgent need” for Christians to “recover an appreciation of the virtue of chastity,” which, he reminded the bishops, is defined in the Catechism as an “apprenticeship in self-mastery which is a training in human freedom.”

Fundamentally, he said, the Christian understanding of sexuality is “a source of genuine freedom, happiness and the fulfillment of our fundamental and innate human vocation to love.”

He concluded by telling the bishops that children have “a fundamental right” to grow up with an “understanding of sexuality and its proper place in human relationships.”

Confession and true conversion of people’s hearts is the “motor” of all reform and an authentic “force for evangelization,” Pope Benedict XVI told a gathering of priests and deacons March 9.

The Pope reflected on confession in an address to 1,300 participants in the Apostolic Penitentiary’s annual course on the “internal forum,” a technical term for the area of personal conscience and judgment in the priest-penitent relationship.

In a novel speech, he connected the New Evangelization and confession, saying that the effort to spread the Gospel draws life from “the sanctity of the sons and daughters of the Church, from the daily process of individual and community conversion, conforming itself ever more profoundly to Christ.”

“Thus each confession, from which each Christian will emerge renewed, will represent a step forward for New Evangelization.”

Priests are also able to become collaborators in the New Evangelization by hearing confessions, the Pope said. They have as many possible “new beginnings” as sinners they encounter, he noted, because those who truly experience the mercy of Christ in confession will become “credible witnesses of sanctity.”

Pope Benedict also reflected on what happens spiritually during the sacrament of confession. The repentant sinner is “justified, forgiven and sanctified,” thanks to the Divine Mercy, which is the “only adequate response” to humankind’s need for the infinite, he said.

The forgiveness of sins has a direct impact on efforts to spread the Gospel, he explained, pointing out that only those “who allow themselves to be profoundly renewed by divine grace can internalize and therefore announce the novelty of the Gospel.”

The Pope also had some words for priests who hear confessions. He stressed the importance of spiritual and canonical preparation and reminded them that priests must be the first to renew an awareness of themselves as sinners who need sacramental forgiveness to renew their encounter with Christ.

He finished his talk by urging his fellow priests to always make “novelty of Christ”  the focus of their priestly lives so that others will see Christ in them.

 

 

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As I hear the concept of “love” taught in Church on Sundays, I am of the opinion that priests are as mislead about love as is the secular world!

Carl -

Please elaborate.

This good news from the Pope is exhilirating.  Maybe he will be seen as great as his predecessor.

In my OB/GYN practice I see the damage done to familes, children, and love relationships on a daily basis.  The culture of death offers so little to modern young people.  Those who are contemplating abortion often encounter pregnacy in pathetic or desperate circumstances, such that abortion seems like a ‘reasonable’ or ‘legitimate’ choice.

Frequently women become pregnant by men who don’t love them enough, if at all.  The men don’t feel enough commitment or responsibility to their women.  They don’t see women as among God’s greatest gifts. 

The women go through life searching for the ideal of a good man, which they know in their hearts.  They may have one child from each of several fathers, because they kept searching for the good man.  We men do not provide what we should.

Finally, the children are seen as expenses and encumbrances before birth.  The children long for their parents to marry.  Instead, parents may not marry despite having four children together.  Or the parents may divorce and then use the children as clubs with which to beat each other. 

If we look at very old movies, we can see the profound, self-sacrificial love as it should be.  If we follow the ideals of the church, we can find this True Lasting Love, and be done with the Pathetic Immitation Love.

I’ve been working my way through the Theology of the Body (very long process on my own!) and I’m struck over and over again by things that I wish I’d been taught as a teenager. We have done SUCH a disservice to our community by dropping any formal catechism after confirmation, which for so many meant only 12 years old!

Just reading Fulton Sheen’s excellent book ‘Three to get married’ as my fiance and I prepare to get married. Such wonderful truths that bring life instead of death, hope instead of despair and above all true love instead of a shadow based on things that fade. Praise God for His wonderful teachings that keep His children on the right path to holiness and wholeness. Let us keep praying for our Holy Father and the Bishops in their role to inspire and teach and shepherd. Let us pray for catechists and evangelists to be raised up to teach and pray with young people, to bring them the light of God’s wonderful truth and love in these dark times where the evil one seeks to keep them blind, bound and trapped in sin. Let us pray during Lent that we would have the courage to stand up and answer God’s call in what He is asking us to do, even if that is only to lead a life worthy of Him and so be an example of Love to all who know us.

I think there are two main problems:

1) A lot of kids leaving church after 8th grade. Some of them were Confirmed, others missed out because their diocese moved the Confirmation age up to the end of 10th grade. They stop going to Church once they start high school, especially if their parents cannot afford to send them to Catholic high school or homeschool them (public school kids lose out most).

2) Poor catechesis with regards to marriage, love, and family planning. There really needs to be a way to reach these kids. And as seniors when they are about to leave for college, teach them about NFP, its effectiveness, and its benefits. If that was a normal part of the curriculum, a lot more people would practice it. I also think less kids would sleep around, especially with guys who want them to go on the pill; why am I not good enough the way I am… why do I have to take a pill for you to accept me? And guys who want sex all the time will come off as the immature, self-centered jerks that they really are. It’s win-win.

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