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Faith Leads Man to Forgive the Suspected Killer of His Wife and Daughter (1209)

‘I had no choice,’ Arturo Martinez-Sanchez said. ‘I forgive him because I believe in God.’

07/18/2012 Comments (9)
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LAS VEGAS — Arturo Martinez-Sanchez says he had no choice but to forgive the man suspected of sexually assaulting and killing his wife and young daughter in an April 2012 attack that also left him seriously wounded.

“I have to forgive him, to go the way of life,” the Las Vegas resident said in a July 17 interview. “It’s in the Bible … I forgive him because I believe in God.”

“The Bible says: You forgive this gentleman, and you are forgiven yourself. That’s the way it is,” said Martinez-Sanchez, a lifelong Catholic who said his upbringing and education in the Church impressed on him the need to forgive Bryan Clay.

Martinez-Sanchez recently held a press conference to declare that he forgave the 22-year-old Clay, who is accused of raping Arturo’s 38-year-old wife Yadira and their 10-year-old daughter Karla. Both were beaten to death with a hammer by the attacker, who also inflicted severe head injuries on the father.

Clay and Martinez-Sanchez did not know each other before the home invasion, described by a Las Vegas police lieutenant as “a random, savage act.” The 39-year-old father and his wife also had two sons, Christopher and Alejandro, who were spared in the attack.

Arturo underwent two brain surgeries along with extensive physical therapy. He still speaks with difficulty, and continues to receive six hours of treatment each day.

But he has reopened the boxing gym he ran before the murders. And through his faith in God, he has set aside any form of hatred or desire for personal vengeance against the suspected killer.

Accompanied by his sons, he amazed listeners at the July 12 press conference with his response to a reporter who asked what he would say to Bryan Clay, given the chance.

“I would say, ‘I forgive you,’” he responded. “If he kissed me on the cheek, I would kiss him back.”

“I love my Yadira. I love my Karla. I love my sons,” Martinez-Sanchez said at the press conference. “We all love Jesus. Through his strength, we will survive.”

If Clay is found guilty, Martinez-Sanchez expects him to be punished appropriately, with the death penalty if necessary. But this decision, he said, is not his to make.

“My command,” he maintained, is simply “to forgive him.” That responsibility was “something between me and God,” with “nobody else involved.”

After Bryan Clay was arrested, the murder suspect reportedly told police he wished they had simply killed him rather than apprehending him. Martinez-Sanchez says he has prayed for Clay to be able “to know God” and receive the mercy available to all who sincerely repent.

No one, he stressed, is without sin in the eyes of God. And no one, according to Christ himself, will receive his mercy unless they show mercy to others.

“As a believer in Christ, I know that God forgives all the sins of those who have faith in him,” Martinez-Sanchez said in his July 12 “Forgiveness Statement.”

“In this, I am instructed to forgive first. Knowing that God will forgive even murders if there is true repentance, Bryan Clay will stand in judgment before him.”

His choice to regard Clay with love does not take away his pain, nor does it absolve the suspected killer of his responsibilities before the law and before God.

But for a victim of injustice, “forgiveness is not a choice that God leaves to us,” Martinez-Sanchez said in his July 12 statement. “It is a commandment.”

 

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How beautiful & inspiring!  God bless all involved.  God is truly merciful & good!

I may have sin on my soul, but I didn’t rape and bludgeon a ten-year-old to death. I don’t know how any father would be able to forgive such a crime. Good for him, if he honestly does; I simply cannot fathom it.

Wow.Beautiful article. Thank you!

I also had the misfortune to face forgiving the man who killed my daughter.  I truly believe Jesus taught us to forgive because the opposite is madness; completely losing yourself to hate or guilt (why wasn’t I able to protect her).  He is in jail for life.  While I think of her everyday, it is not with mental anguish.

God Bless him and his sons.  That is the way of the cross.  Amazing.  I hope I am never tested like that.

The whole idea is sick. If every “evil act” can be forgiven, what is religion for? Does the Catholic Church exist to “forgive” the outrageous? How can you acknowledge the existence of evil when everything is forgiven?
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Gee, I can rape and murder any Catholic, because their “faith” will make them forgive me.

May God restore you to health and bless you as he did Job. You are an example living out Christian virtues as we are called too!

Gloria,

Christ is a physician. He came not for the well, but for those who are ill in mind and soul. Those who do not sin have no need of a Savior. As Catholics, we believe that no one can sin so egregiously that they can never be forgiven. Who can separate us from the love of Christ? (Romans 8:35). It doesn’t make the acts any less terrible, but if the sinner comes to his fellow man and God, sincerely seeking forgiveness for their transgressions, who are we to withhold healing from our brothers and sisters when Christ has already died for us?

I just hope that Mr. Clay finds God and is able to make peace with God and himself over these acts. Even better if he can make some attempt at penance to Martinez-Sanchez and his sons. Martinez-Sanchez has shown his ability to love and keep Christ’s commands, even in the most difficult of times. I hope that I would be able to be as forgiving and faithful if these things should happen to me.

May God grant you speedy recovery and also grant the accused a short prison term so you can go find him and rip his face off

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