As I write, the nation is waiting to see what the Supreme Court will say about gay marriage. The debates I've heard have centered mainly around whether or not gay people should be allowed to marry so that they can have the things that heterosexual couples take for granted.
The question is, do they actually want what heterosexual couples take for granted?
I just read an extraordinarily candid article by a gay man who promotes gay marriage. He's been in what he considers a committed relationship with another man for six years. They've had, he says, "varying understandings about monogamy at different times in [their] relationship." It is, he says, a well-known secret in the gay...READ MORE