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What If Advent Feels Awful?

Friday, December 03, 2010 2:36 PM Comments (1)

Catholic Spiritual Direction, a blog featuring the spiritual writings of Fr. John Bartunek, L.C. (President of Circle Media and author of The Better Part), is an excellent resource for those seeking spiritual advice and direction.

This week, Fr. Bartunek takes up a topic that is close to the heart of those who are suffering during this Advent season of hope and waiting. A reader asks:

“Advent is usually a season of hope. But what about when there is little reason for hope? When life is far from joyful, how can we experience the true joy and peace of the Advent season?  Our family has suffered many losses this year and even my children are despairing at what a bad year it has been. My husband and I are separated with little hope of reconciliation, we lost our family pets (both our dog and our cat) and have just been plagued with a series of sad events this past year. I am praying to be able to experience true joy and peace this Advent season but how can I overcome these personal sufferings? Just putting them aside for a time seems so false and futile. Any advice?”

Read Fr. Bartunek’s answer at Catholic Spiritual Direction.

 

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I know it’s impossible to just put troubles aside. Even though I feel - I know - that my troubles are actually slight compared to others’, I often feel overwhelmed by sadness, and yes, this is due to loss, but long ago loss.  My solution, and I admit it’s one I don’t always use, is to turn to the Bible.  My favorite verse is John 14:1 - “Do not let your hearts be troubled; have faith in God and faith in Me.” Sometimes if I say it long enough, over and over, something truly blessed happens. May you find your strength in Scripture.

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Danielle Bean, a wife and mother of eight, is editorial director of Faith & Family magazine and author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Read more of her blogging at Faith & Family Live and DanielleBean.com.